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"Oh God! You've failed!" "Maybe it was not in your destiny!" "Shame on you! You've put zero efforts!" "Don't worry, you deserve better!" "Better luck next time dear!" "You should put more efforts next time!" These are some on the common dialogues which we all must have heard when we FAIL. But why? Is failure that bad? Why do people run away from failure? When one fails, they shatter down into million pieces. Their hope breakdowns in front of their eyes which they have gathered after a lot of struggle. This  comments have played a significant role in bringing their moral down. Sometimes, their hope breakdown so badly that many people don't even get the courage to build that hope and optimism again.  When one starts the struggle of achieving something, they definitely put 100% efforts in order to fulfill their dreams. "Failure"  and " Success" are just the two respective sides of ...

"You'll find something magical in Murakami's tales" , my friend told me. Firstly, I didn't take his words seriously but.. in the month of April, I came across the book "Birthday Girl" by "Haruki Murakami" . I read it and now I completely agree with him.  Hello, নমস্কার, नमस्ते.. in today's blog there will be a book review. Let's know about the author first. HARUKI MURAKAMI Haruki Murakami is a Japanese writer. His novels, essays, and short stories have been best-sellers in Japan and internationally, with his work translated into 50 languages and having sold millions of copies outside Japan. Few of his famous writings include "Norwegian wood", "Men without women" , etc. THE BOOK Inspite of being a small, handy book, it is filled with suspense, plot twist and learnings. This story is about a young girl (also the narrator) who encountered a strange incident on her 20th birthday. She used to work ...

We may think that letting things go is an extremely tough task. I know when you let things go, you will get hurt badly. Sometimes, you may not able to figure out the things, you may feel anxious, you heart wants to cry out loud. But I can assure you that once you learn to have a control over yourself, it's never going to hurt you anymore.  I have a simple mantra which I follow, this may help you too... *Never  beg for a seat, friendship, relation, love. Never ask them " why don't you reply?" Or "why don't you guys pick my calls?" Don't do, that seat was never meant for you ,  if you can't respect yourself , no one will !  Build you own table.* One should remember that "   it's a game of DESTINY ".   If the person is in your destiny, then even after facing several ups and downs, they going to be with you. And if they are not in your destiny, then even after making several attempts to let them stay with you. They won't. In my opin...

Hello, নমস্কার, नमस्ते!!!! So here's the part two of few quotes and thoughts which I've found while reading "RAM~ The Scion of Ikshvaku" by Amish Tripathi. Let's begin : 🔺 Sometimes, the followers are good but the leaders let them down. 🔺It will get worse before it gets better. 🔺There is something positive hidden in every negative and something negative hidden in every positive. 🔺 Women are equal to men in mental abilities. 🔺 Marriage is a sacred partnership between two souls. It should not be treated as a political alliance. 🔺A fool is worshipped in his home.     A chief is worshipped in his village.     A king is worshipped in his kingdom.     A knowledgeable person is worshipped       everywhere. 🔺One of the few advantages of being disliked is that you don't need to fret overs what others think about you. 🔺A person becomes Brahmin by karma, not by birth. 🔺Birth is completely unimportant. It is just a means of entry into this ...

Hello  everyone!!!!! Welcome back to a new blog of mine ( ik its been a long time).... Recently I have finished one book "RAM~ The Scion of Ikshvaku " by  Amish Tripathi which I absolutely loved a lot.... Here Amish Tripathi had talked about the life of Shri Ram upto the Sita haran phase.... In this book I came across few thoughts and quotes which I liked a lot...few of them are mentioned here~ 🔺The universe was born when the one, Ekam, split into many in a great big bang, this activating the cycle of creation . 🔺Love is secondary. Respect comes first in each and every relationship. We need someone who can respect us and whom we can respect. 🔺A realtionship is not just for fun , it is also about the trust and knowledge that you can depend on your partner. Relationship based on passion and excitement do not last long. 🔺Some stories are best left untold. 🔺" Kimapi nu janaahaa vadishyanti.        Tadeva kaaryan janaanaam" Meaning - People will...

We all have some dreams, some goals in our life. Few of them holds a special place in our heart which we can't express in words. These dreams are like 'खयाली पुलाव' - people will say that you aren't able to achieve it, you don't have any way/path to make your dreams come true. But we still have the hope to fulfill those 'खयाली पुलाव'. This poem is for these dreams of mine ~                                                ~ मन बावरा  ~     ये मन बावरा है ! न जाने क्या-क्या सपने देखता हैं , ये मन कई सारे खयाली पुलाव पकाता हैं, जिसमें कभी थोड़ी मिर्ची ज्यादा और नमक कम हों जाता है । ये बावरा-सा मन कभी असमानों में पंख फैलाकर उड़ने को करता हैं , तो कभी इन ऊंचे बदलो को छूने का करता है । कभी-कभी ये मन एक जगह गुमसुम बैठे रहने का करता हैं और कभी जोरो से चिल्ला कर अपने गमों को बाहर निकालने का करता हैं । सच में ये मन बावरा हैं ! ये कई ख्वाब अंदर-ही-अ...