BEING JUDGEMENTAL

"Hey! Just look at her, how short her dress is"

" You know what...Sharmaji's daughter got into AIIMS and look at Mishraji's daughter, she opted for fashion designing. She's wasting their money"

"I already knew he would fail, he had put zero efforts"

"Even after scoring so much, she opted for arts. Wrong decision. She will regret later"

"She took content creation as her career. Her career will end soon"

We know that human wants ane never ending. Similarly, their judgements are endless too. People will come, judge you, throw some comments on you and they move ahead. What it leaves behind is self doubt, anxiety and hopelessness. They never wonder that their judgements will put some much impact on others life. We pretend that these judgement do not affect us. But in reality we know that to some extend it does affect us. But everything has a solution.

My most favourite person once told me that "any thing will only affect you, till you give it the right to do so" there are three ways one can handle a judgement:

~By replying back to them by in the same way. But this has its own demerits, if you also reply them back in the judgemental way then what would be the difference between you and that particular person. Moreover, the aspect of handling a judgement is not to hurt others.

~To keep quiet if you're seeing a wrong thing happening around you and not saying anything against it then bro! you need to change this. It is not the solution of any problem and it will give the people another chance to comment back on you.

~By setting some boundaries and limits of everything, in simple words by being mature and ignoring them. See, this is very clear, when you see something wrong you must speak against it but not rudely. If you be a bit mature in such cases then it would not give those people the opportunity to criticize you.

Remember that people want stop criticizing you but if you are strong enough and have the self esteem esteem then things like this and not going to effect you at all. Not even for a single moment.

Remember

                     "कुछ तो लोग कहेंगे 

                   लोगों का काम है कहना 

               छोड़ो बेकार की बातों में कहीं 

                      बीत न जाए रैना "

How do you guys handle such judgements??? Do let me know in the comments and in my insta DMs.

See you in my next blog till then खाओ, पीयो, ऐश करो मित्रों💫✨🌟

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